Sex, Emotion, and Intimacy: Are You Sexy to Your Wife?

Sex is not a dirty word. Emotion is not wimpy. Intimacy is not a stupid buzzword. If you are not getting “enough” sexual attention from your wife, stop blaming her. Maybe you need to jump into bed with intimacy?  Have you lost your sexy AND intimate edge with her?

What makes a man sexy to his wife? Even in the face of the gender stereotypic turnoffs—- pot bellies, poor grooming, couch potato syndrome, sports’ addict focus, boozing, smoking, and immature behaviors—- male initiative to generate emotional intimacy turns a marriage sexy. Intimacy is what bonds the couple together and creates the experience of a close connection.

The other day my wonderful husband was unshaven with coffee breath and dressed in house grubbies when he unexpectedly blurted out a sincere and emotional, “I love the sh_t out of you, babe!!” His provocative emotional expressiveness was accented by his endearing “in-love” look. I am clueless as to how I triggered his spontaneous communication—–but it was a huge intimate turn on for me.

What turns YOUR wife on? Quickly—-name five things. You can’t? No wonder you’re not sexy to her. Start an intimate discussion tonight and invite her to join in with you.

 

 

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